She already has candles, good wine, cashmere socks, and a drawer of gift cards she keeps meaning to use. So what do you give someone who seems to have everything, and how do you make sure it doesn't end up at the back of a cupboard?
We think the answer is something she'll make everyday use out of. Here's how to choose a silk scarf with confidence, even if you've never bought one before.
Is a silk scarf a good gift?
Yes, and for a simple reason: a well-made silk scarf is one of the few gifts that is both personal and practical. It fits every body, so there's no guessing at dress sizes. It works in every season and, unlike most gifts, it can be used in several different ways, from knotted around the neck, tucked into a winter coat, to tied around the handle of a favourite bag.
Mulberry silk is a natural fibre that's hypoallergenic and biodegradable, and it feels cool in summer and comforting in colder months. That makes it a gift she can wear all year round rather than one season.
When a scarf is hand-rolled, printed in small batches and OEKO-TEX certified, it becomes a lovely, considered piece she'll keep for years.
How to choose a silk scarf for someone else
Start with what she already wears
You don't need to be an expert in scarves. You only need to know a few things about her style and the colours she often wears, whether it’s her navy coat, beige jumper, or dresses in soft pinks or deep greens. A silk scarf gift should echo a colour she already loves and will easily fit into her wardrobe.
If she tends to wear plain, classic pieces, a print can bring them to life. If she already has many patterns, a softer or plain design may suit her better.
Choose a print that feels like her
For the woman who loves heritage and tradition: paisley has a timeless, well-travelled character. Our Deep Navy & Beige Regal Paisley Silk Scarf and the Navy Heritage Paisley Silk Scarf are both easy to wear with almost anything.
For the romantic or the nature-lover: a botanical print such as the Pink Botanical Bliss Silk Square Scarf or the Royal Vintage Garden Silk Scarf.
For the woman with modern taste: a geometric design like our Chess Club Silk Scarf in golden squash or classic navy and red is a versatile piece that she’ll simply love.
For the minimalist: the Classic Plain Coloured Silk Scarf lets the silk itself shine and makes even the simplest outfits interesting.
If you're still unsure, choose the design you'd most like to wear yourself. We often find that instinct is a better guide than overthinking.
A silk scarf for every occasion
Because a scarf doesn't depend on size or season, it’s the perfect gift for almost any occasion:
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Mother's Day - a gift for mum that she'll wear rather than display, and think of you when she does.
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Birthdays and milestones - it’s the perfect gift for a birthday, to celebrate a new job or or new move.
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Retirement and leaving gifts - a thoughtful choice for a colleague or mentor, and a lovely idea for a group gift.
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Christmas - something beautiful to unwrap that isn't another candle.
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Thank you - for a friend who's been there, a host, or someone who made a difference.
For the man who has everything
Silk isn't only for women. A silk neckerchief is one of the most understated ways for a man to elevate what he already owns - tucked under the collar of a jacket, or worn with a cable knit at the weekend.
Our men's designs are muted and classic rather than loud, so he won't feel he's making a statement he didn't intend. The Heritage Paisley Men's Square Silk Neckerchief and the Blue Kyoto Bloom Silk Scarf are good options and if he's never worn one, our men’s neckerchief styling guide will help.
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Your gift arrives wrapped
We believe the unwrapping should feel as special as the gift itself. Every scarf arrives in recycled packaging that's ready to give, with no extra wrapping needed, and you can add a handwritten note for a more personal touch.
Loved by our customers
“This beautifully packaged parcel arrived in speedy fashion and the scarves themselves are really gorgeous. I will definitely be buying these as gifts in the future. Thank you Lulu.”
“Beautiful scarf bought as a gift for my aunt…gorgeous packaging and arrived within 2 days of ordering. What’s not to like!”
“Bought it for my husband's 80th birthday as he wanted something that was not too chunky to keep his neck warm this winter. This silk neckerchief is perfect. Delivery was very quick and the neckerchief was packed beautifully. Thank you LuluLane.”
Quiet little luxuries for the people you love
A silk scarf is a small gift that says a great deal: that you noticed what they wear, that you chose something made to last, and that you wanted them to have something beautiful.
Each of our scarves is designed in England, hand-rolled by long-term artisan partners and made in small batches, which is why so many of our customers now think of us first when an occasion comes around.
Browse our gift collection and find the one that feels like them. And don’t forget to add your handwritten note at checkout.